A Disabled Dating Case Study: Mary & David
💕A real-life DisabilityMatches success story that started online and ended in love!
"When two hearts are meant to be together, no disability can keep them apart. This is the beautiful story of Mary and David, who found love through DisabilityMatches and proved that everyone deserves their happily ever after."
💫 Meet Mary
Mary joined DisabilityMatches in late 2013 after hearing about online dating for people with disabilities from a friend. She'd been single for two years and was ready to find someone special.
At 34, Mary has Cerebral Palsy but had never let her disability hold her back in life – she has a successful career as a graphic designer, her own flat, and a great group of friends.
What she didn't have was that special someone to share her life with.
🎨 Meet David
David had been a member of DisabilityMatches for about six months when he came across Mary's profile. David, 37, lives with Multiple Sclerosis and had joined the site after his divorce was finalized.
He was initially nervous about dating again, especially with a disability, but DisabilityMatches gave him the confidence to put himself out there.
"When I saw Mary's profile, I was immediately drawn to her smile. She seemed so positive and fun, and I loved that she was artistic – I'm a bit of an art lover myself!"
💌 Their Online Connection
David sent Mary a thoughtful message asking about her work as a graphic designer and mentioning that he'd love to see some of her artwork. Mary was impressed that he'd actually read her profile properly and responded with enthusiasm.
For three weeks, Mary and David exchanged messages through DisabilityMatches. They talked about their work, their families, their experiences with disability, and discovered they had a lot in common.
Both loved movies, were passionate about food, and had traveled extensively despite the challenges their disabilities sometimes presented.
"The great thing about messaging on DisabilityMatches first was that we got to know each other's personalities. By the time we decided to meet, I felt like I already knew David quite well."
- Mary
🎨 Their First Date
At the Art Gallery
Their first date was at a local art gallery – accessible for both of them and combining their mutual love of art. They spent hours looking at paintings and sculptures, chatting about the artists and their techniques.
Both admit they were nervous, but the conversation flowed naturally.
"I remember thinking how easy it was to talk to Mary. There were no awkward silences, no moment where I felt judged about my disability. We just clicked." - David
💕 Love Blossomed
Six months later, Mary and David were inseparable. They'd found in each other not just a romantic partner, but someone who truly understood the daily realities of living with a disability without ever making it the focus of their relationship.
"Dave makes me laugh every single day. Yes, we both have disabilities, but that's just one small part of who we are. We fell in love with each other as complete people."
- Mary
💍 Today
Mary and David have been together for over two years. They've moved in together and are planning their wedding for next spring!
💝 Their Advice for You
David's Advice:
"Don't be afraid to put yourself out there. DisabilityMatches gave us both a safe space to be ourselves and find someone who gets it."
Mary's Advice:
"Be patient. Love might not happen with the first person you message, but if you stay positive and keep trying, you'll find your person. I promise!"
Your love story could be next! ✨
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